But then d words that my mum gonna say, it hurts me </3
She signals me that "there are a lot of fishes in the sea just u haven't explore it yet " ugh! I understood what was she trying to say.. So I just told her that " I dn see d need to explore more fishes " ><
After that kind of deep conversation, thn I'd tried my best nt to k it too much or even put inside my heart, coz for me, as long as my man n I r loving each other now, thn I wont really k abt what others think abt us.
Today, When the moment I asked my mum was she the one that help me reload? thn she said something n mentioned my man's name but thn I just couldn't hear it clearly coz I was at outside kitchen while she was inside d inner kitchen, lol
Keep on asking my brain to rearrange what kind of sentence she'd said with those words so in the conclusion, my brain helped me to rearrange it bk n given me a possibly sentence. I knw I knw, it doesn't sound logic but thn for most of the times whenever I couldn't hear clearly what others r talking abt thn I'll rearrange bk the few words tat I'd heard and thn I'll gt the whole sentence n replied them correctly.
I'm sad coz I know isn't that my mum doesn't like him, she just being rational & realistic. Rational & realistic are something that we got to have in order to survive in this society. My mum has her points but then I just hope she doesn't expect that my man is a rich guy n a smart talented guy. Please! Not many guys at this age will have a buck of golden and talents. I just want her to respect my own choice... I have my own rights to choose d man I want to be with & marry with... As if I really find a guy that manage to fulfill her requirements that doesn't mean that I'll love that guy as much as d man I'm loving right now.. Moreover, a guy tat having such an appreciation status, will he loves me as much as d man I'm with now?
When the moment you start picking at a man that is rich n smart ain't that the man also picking at a woman that is pretty n smart or even richer? So don't ever forget that not only that u're picky but everyone that has such good status will also being picky in choosing their mate.
Just wanna share something with u all. Here's a meaningful replied from CEO of J.P. Morgan to a pretty girl seeking a rich husband that I read at fb :)
" Put
the details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty"
and "money" : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair
and square.
However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year.
Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.
By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a "trading position".
If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased".
Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool.
Hope this reply helps.
signed,
J.P. Morgan CEO "
However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year.
Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.
By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a "trading position".
If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased".
Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool.
Hope this reply helps.
signed,
J.P. Morgan CEO "
Yeah... I'm an exponential depreciation asset if I'm really gonna find a guy as what my mum want me to have :(
I know my man will become an appreciation asset someday! I won't give up! I love you baby :-* <3
